Feel Good Friday – How to handle rejection and knock backs in your author career
23 May @ 11:00 - 11:45 BST

There are many moments in your author career where you lay yourself and your book open to judgement by others and potential rejection. Sending your book on submission to agents or publishers is an obvious example. So if you do get that ‘No thank you, it’s not for us’ how do you pick yourself up and keep going?
This session lead by confidence and mindset coach, Kelly Weekes will look at possible ways to handle agent and/or publisher rejections and to help you build your resilience and make a plan to move forward.
#SoAatHome Feel Good Friday events – free for SoA Members
As of Feb 2025, all #SoAatHome Feel Good Friday sessions will continue to be free for members. However, for non-members, the price is £5 including VAT.
Not a member, sign up here with our special #SoAatHome offer and get 20 per cent off for the first year – use code SOAATHOME20.
Programme
- Welcome, introductions and housekeeping from Lilly Brend-Fish – Events Manager, SoA (3 mins)
- Presentation by Kelly Weekes (30 mins)
- Q&A with audience (10 mins)
- Summary and closing comments (2 mins)
Who is this session for?
This is for authors who want to develop their resilience and find ways to move forward positively after knock backs and rejection.
What will this session cover?
- Separating the personal from the professional
- How to build resilience
- Making a plan to move forward
Send us your questions
If you would like to send questions in advance, email LBrendfish@societyofauthors.org with ‘How to handle rejection’ in the subject header. We will prioritise questions sent in advance and answer as many as we can from the audience on the day.
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The Line-up
Kelly Weekes
Kelly Weekes is a confidence and mindset coach for authors who she helps go from feeling stuck and uncertain about their future to confident and thriving in their author careers by helping them develop strategies to overcome challenges and fuel their professional momentum.
She is accredited by the institute of Leadership and a member of the ICF (International Coaching Federation)
She has an extensive background of working in senior marketing roles in publishing and, and as well as coaching, also mentors authors on getting started on building their audience and presence to promote their books.
Website: www.kellyweekes.co.uk | Instagram: @kelly_weekes
Need to know
Accessibility
- Attendees will have the option to turn on the live transcript, to watch with subtitles
- If you require BSL interpretation for this event, please email events@societyofauthors.org
Before the event
- Once registered, you will be sent a confirmation email with the Zoom link
- If the confirmation email doesn’t arrive in your inbox, please check your junk/spam email folder
- Please add events@societyofauthors.org to your Safe Senders list so you receive our confirmation and reminder emails
During the event
- This online event will take place on Zoom Meetings; you will be visible on screen if you have your camera on.
- Attendees will be able to ask questions either via the chat box or by unmuting themselves.
- This event is 45 minutes
After the event
- Hashtag for this event: #SoAatHome
- SoA Members and paid attendees of this event will be able to catch the recording on our Vimeo channel (password protected) or members can access via the SoA website.
Booking
SoA Members: Please use the ‘Register – SoA Members’ form below and provide your details, including your membership number. If you’re unsure of your SoA ID, please email info@societyofauthors.org.
Non-members: Choose one of the two ticket options below, complete the registration form, then fill out the billing info to finalise your payment.
For event or registration questions, email events@societyofauthors.org.
SoA Members – Free
Non-Members – £5
Register - SoA Member
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